Today’s post is very exciting, in my opinion. I know that the majority of my readers are Facebook friends of mine, and many are still in high school. Side note: thank you all for clicking your way here! Now that I’ve moved in and I’ve almost completed my first “week” of classes, I thought it would be fun to do a blog post reflecting on my high school experience and what I wish I knew (but didn’t learn until almost graduation). I’m not an expert on high school by any stretch, and my experience was extremely unique, but I do feel like I have a good grip on what it’s all about.
Thus, I bring to you five things I wish I knew when I was in high school.
- High school is a game. There. I said it. It’s a game -- it really is. Class grades are important, social lives are important, SAT scores are important, applying to college is IMPORTANT, and it’s overwhelming. High school is warming you up for the real world without completely letting go of your hand; it is a broadening of your worldly perspective while still providing a sturdy, reliable structure. How do you win the game of high school? Play your best. This is easier said than done: learn how you think; find different friend groups, and figure out which peers are bringing you down and which are helping you succeed; realize that every move you make starting from freshman year affects your future. There are no do-overs.
- Never forget breakfast. Yeah, sounds overrated, I know. But I’ve talked to some high school graduate friends as I was drafting this post and this actually came up more often than you’d think. Many high schools start classes as early as 7 AM (ouch) and lunch isn’t until noon. That’s 5 hours of class time. Crawling out of bed ten minutes earlier to eat is worth it, trust me. During my time in a “normal” high school setting, I realized that most teachers don’t appreciate their students chomping on food while they’re trying to hype the class up for History first thing in the morning. Eat before you leave, and remember to pack a healthier lunch than what your school offers; a PB&J and some yogurt or fruit will keep you energized much, much longer than a greasy slice of cafeteria pizza. ew.
- Always keep an agenda/planner. Now, this was not something I “wish I knew in high school.” Actually, it’s probably my pride and joy from the past four years of my life, and something that I can’t imagine ever living without. So really, take this one as a normal piece of advice from me to you: keep an agenda. Some schools provide planners to write homework in. If not, most office supply stores (and Target!) have entire aisles dedicated to agendas. Taking an extra 30 seconds at the end of class to write down your homework for the night, mark an upcoming test day, or a project due date will help you keep your academic life on track. Homework is an extremely valuable part of high school -- knowing what you have to do is just as important.
- Realize that people change. I think it's easier to come to terms with change when you're not directly related to it. For example, the leaves change color in the fall, the sun sets every night, and (ugh) your favorite restaurant tweaks the formula for their amazing fries and they just aren't the same. But you also have to know that people change, they even do so daily. High school isn't just about learning academically, there's also a huge element of personal growth...it happens to everyone. People discover new favorite types of music, friend groups, and develop in their life habits. Sometimes - not all, but plenty in my own experience - this means that you grow apart. You won't be friends with everyone from high school forever, and that's okay. Just know that it's not necessarily your fault.
- Try new things. For almost all four years of high school, I did the same things. I was an online student, and music was the biggest part of my life outside of homework. Looking back, I'm extremely grateful for the years that I participated, but I also wish that I'd tried something a little bit different earlier on. During senior year, I started painting, and quickly realized I loved it (and I'm actually semi-decent! Score!) and I haven't had nearly enough time to sit with a canvas and palette of colors since coming to college. Granted, this is my first week, but still. I miss it a lot. Take some of the extra time you have during high school - when you can still be driven around by your awesome parents - and get out of your comfort zone a little bit. Even if what you try doesn't turn out to be "your thing," I can guarantee that there's something to learn from it.
If you aren't in high school anymore and happened to read this, thanks for sticking around! Maybe you can relate. Definitely let me know if you do (or don't!).
Keep not settling,